Use the contact seller email to send us the info you would like. We will need the name and dates of your loved one emailed to us along with anything special you may want us to include. The Granite is engraved with: "In Loving Memory," your loved one's name dates, the Praying Hands design and border as shown, and a poem. (You can personalize the text any way you want). Thank you very much for your purchase and allowing us to help. This piece of Frosted Engraved Black Granite is natural stone that is polished with a smooth surface and a high sheen. Being a natural product, which means there can be variations in color and pattern, and sometimes what you get delivered may be touch different than what you see in the display but as in nature all is most acceptable. The memorials are designed and made exclusively in the Lazzari Collections Studio.